Seasons & Reasons

Peace & Blessings Readers and Lovers of the Blog Era:
Of course it has been quite a while since I have last blogged and Sis (SEQ) has been on my case. Truth is I have several blog entries written I am just getting to posting them so keep ya eyes open and stay tuned. But I just had to jot down these thought first thing this morning in light of two conversations I had last night. You know we sometimes get so wrapped up and engulfed in the to-do’s of our agenda that we simply forget to sit down and relax and just enjoy a mere moment of nothingness. Yes, nothingness. The state of doing absolutely nothing just to clear your mind, find your breath, inhale and exhale a few good times and smell the surroundings of life and living.
So my bestest friend in the whole wide world of Lawd knows how many years,, and although we are separated by a few states and a bunch of miles nothing has shaken our friendship. You know it’s crazy to me how some folks can question the theory and blessings and existence of true friendship. And trust me, I have been through some friendships and some ended, some dwindled and some still remain. But the friendship(s) that are true last forever and no factors can shake it or come between it. Ok, I am getting a bit ahead of myself, but during the course of our convo, he has no idea, but I was jotting down notes because I knew I was going to blog on our topics of discussions. Yeah you know friends have those chit chat sessions, catch up, hey how are you convos but our convos foreshadow the very essence of life and the core of the roads we travel and the games we play and master. I am reminded of a great philosopher, I think his name was Fredrick Nietze who quote, “I am the master of my fate, the captain of my soul.” I may not be quoting it exactly correctly, but you get the point. He is a German Philosopher, look it up. Anywhoo, we began to talk and indulge in convos relating to our lives and the negatives, positives, the things we want to change, the things that should remain the same and the things we desire back that we once inhabited. Truth is, self identify is an ongoing process. Self- discovery is ongoing as well. But continual perfection of oneself and being able to identify your pros and con, strengths and weaknesses is a gift that very few inhabit naturally and some seek through extensive sessions with therapist and psychologist. However, I find it a true blessing that my best friend and I as he stated are able to discuss absolutely anything and psychoanalyze situations and identify the objective, the equations, the components, the solutions and resolutions.
There were three thoughts that stuck within not only my mind but within the very core of my being, my soul, that are reminders and thoughts that I will place post-its in my thought process during any dilemma, situation, and or occurrence. I wish to share them with you and encourage you to apply them to your life and everyday thought process. Truth be told, I can be a bit of an over analyzer but to psychoanalyze is an exclusive gift that does no hindrance to me but only a continual maturity and scholar of indentifying the actual factual. Here they are:
Ø People are put into your life for REASONS and in certain SEASONS.
Ø Within those seasons it is imperative to realize that all seasons of life have phases as well
Ø The greatest paycheck of self-worth is PRICELESS!
Ø The milestone is knowing what your problem is, BUT the journey is finding the solution
Ø The friend that you are able to conduct convos psychoanalytically are exclusive and rare and God’s greatest blessings.
Until my next post, Remember to cherish the individuals in your life that enrich you and that sincerely love and care for you for the person you are with quirks and all. Acceptance and genuine love is the key objective of maintaining a healthy, long and honest friendship.
Peace, Prosperity & Infinite Blessings
1Luv,
Monique “1MOpoeticSoul” D.

© September 24, 2008
M.D.